No. You are feministing wrong. Feminism is a movement that advocates, and agitates, for equal social and political rights for women. It is about gender equality. It is about not being defined and categorised by your gender or genitalia. Feminism is an attitude & a way of thinking about the world. You’re trying using it as another ‘us & them’ tool, which is against the basic principles of feminism.
Male privilege is feeling so entitled to getting whatever you want that you argue with women over the right to call yourself a feminist, because you don’t like the sound of “feminist ally”, thus proving that your biggest priority in the feminist movement is yourself.